I couldn't help but write this post, ever since i have been back nearly everyone i come across has handed me his/her (him mostly) cellphone to view some new MMS clip. Sometimes involving ordinary people and sometimes celebrities. It seems everyone at least in Delhi is obsessed with them, can't even blame them for being like this. In the past week i have been shown at least 20 different 'scandals'. There seem to be an extraordinary amount of people taping themselves doing it in India, especially Delhi (came across a number of clips named after local neighborhoods here). The most famous of such 'scandals' actually involved people from my (great) high school, the Mms viewed around the world. It surely ruined one person's life forever.
These clips are not just traded using blue-tooth, they are also put on the net, dispersed to a even larger audience. I don't really understand the whole attraction behind people making these videos, but the attraction of viewing them is pretty obvious. Its bad that the unsuspecting female's life is ruined, but then there are cases where its willfully recorded. Some of these clips are also supposedly being used by people to promote themselves, i.e. celebs (Riya Sen 'Scandal'). There isn't anything that can be done about these clips and i am pretty sure some people wouldn't want anything to be done. After all, voyeurism is a universal attraction. However, the part where this crosses the line is videos or pictures being taken in public of unsuspecting victims, which not only violates their privacy but is essentially harassment.
This is rampant in Delhi, which is why just taking pictures (with a camera) in a public place can get you in trouble. Eve-teasing and guys leering is a part of life at most places in Delhi. I came across a middle-aged guy walking with his wife and leering at girls right in the front of her without hesitation. If you would randomly just ask any female in Delhi, they would tell you of at least one incident where either some tried to harass them or eve-teasing, lewd comments etc etc. I have come know that this is a part of every female's life in Delhi (age is no bar). This is truly desperation to the max, that the person is at a point where the only way to score with a girl is to do it forcibly. Its ruined nightlife in Delhi, most clubs only let in couples or charge exorbitant prices to let in stags. Even money doesn't stop people like this, in fact most of the people doing such stuff are actually pretty affluent. Its very ridiculous situation, where just walking alone, holding hands could get a cop on your back trying to score money. And at the same time, the same cop will let perps just walk away clicking those pictures or videos.
Banning camera phones doesn't really cut it, because its not a realistic option. There will always be perps like these everywhere, but their number can certainly be decreased. Its the attitude and behavior of the society which can really make a difference, looking away simply increases the audacity of the next incident. Delhi is a wonderful city, but it really needs to become a zero-tolerance zone for such behavior. That doesn't mean cops harassing couples, but cracking down on those perps sitting at the malls, markets, cafes etc. Its also a personal thing at a certain level, no amount of cracking down will do away with it. Its the person's moral fibre, how strong it is, how he (hardly ever she) views the other sex. Its also depends on society's predefined notions regarding sex, gender and their treatment. Certainly, hope Delhi just remains the capital of India, not the rape capital of India.
(Help me think of a better title for the post)
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